Saturday, April 19, 2008

listen

have u ever felt that u are being overprotected by ur parents or u just dont know how to satisfy their wants and needs?
parents are just confused and they're making the children confused as well.
they cant make up their minds and stick to one principle but instead they always have their own "reasons" when we question them.

Like, when u are acting like a kid (according to them) and they will tell u to act like an adult because u are one.
or by taking the easiest example,
when u want to make a decision or actually do something on ur own and try for once act like an adult, parents will go, "you're too young to understand..we have experienced it way before u were born..u dont know what's it like out there..bla bla bla"

see, how confused children can be when they are told to do one thing but then, the other?

tolerance, that's all we need.
we listen to u most of the time but sometimes we need u to open ur heart and listen to what we want to say. communication works both ways and it can only be done if there is a mutual understanding between both parties.

i just need u to listen for once for i have been listening to u for the past 20 years of my life.
i am ur daughter, a human being with feelings; not some kind of machine or robot that follows instructions without getting hurt.
i know i'm not the most perfect daughter one could have and i've done mistakes and hurt u in several occasions but we're just humans who tend to make mistakes and learn from them.
how could we work things out for i have been the only person who has been listening and accepting things without fail even if i have to sacrifice a lot of things?

for once, just open ur heart and listen. try to understand and maybe things would be better for the both of us.

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